Comments on: Things are about to get a little personal… http://gavincrossley.wordpress.com/2008/12/15/things-are-about-to-get-a-little-personal/ Thought, Queries, Rants and Confessions of love Fri, 26 Jun 2009 18:21:17 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: piggyy http://gavincrossley.wordpress.com/2008/12/15/things-are-about-to-get-a-little-personal/#comment-4 piggyy Mon, 15 Dec 2008 00:57:38 +0000 http://gavincrossley.wordpress.com/?p=19#comment-4 Crap man, this post is pretty intense. I don't know if you want advice from someone you don't even know, but it sounds like you're reaching out so why not. First, I think you're over thinking things. You think that makes you intelligent, but it doesn't. Intelligent people don't rant they make a point. You need to stop thinking so vague, and really decide what you want to do with your life. I am an ambitious man, and I don't believe you can truly fall in love with anyone who doesn't make you better at your career and a better man. Love is as simple as that. Second, you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You'll be a lot happier when you realize your faults and can work on them. And if you can't fix them then that's just who you are. You don't have a definative personality because you're sheltering yourself from forming one. Finally, if you want to just fuck around then fuck around. It's ok if you aren't ready for a serious relationship. A lot of people think it's wrong to mess around, but a lot of divorces could have been avoided if the two people didn't rush in to marriage because it's socially recommended. Everyone goes through a period of uncertainty. Everyone can even identify with the stuff you've said. You need to rationally -remove your emotions- analyze what you're ready for at this time, and then take action. Good luck. Crap man, this post is pretty intense. I don’t know if you want advice from someone you don’t even know, but it sounds like you’re reaching out so why not.

First, I think you’re over thinking things. You think that makes you intelligent, but it doesn’t. Intelligent people don’t rant they make a point. You need to stop thinking so vague, and really decide what you want to do with your life. I am an ambitious man, and I don’t believe you can truly fall in love with anyone who doesn’t make you better at your career and a better man. Love is as simple as that.

Second, you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You’ll be a lot happier when you realize your faults and can work on them. And if you can’t fix them then that’s just who you are. You don’t have a definative personality because you’re sheltering yourself from forming one.

Finally, if you want to just fuck around then fuck around. It’s ok if you aren’t ready for a serious relationship. A lot of people think it’s wrong to mess around, but a lot of divorces could have been avoided if the two people didn’t rush in to marriage because it’s socially recommended.

Everyone goes through a period of uncertainty. Everyone can even identify with the stuff you’ve said. You need to rationally -remove your emotions- analyze what you’re ready for at this time, and then take action. Good luck.

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